Tamra Judge is opening up about the state of her marriage with Eddie Judge.
During the Thursday, September 3, episode of The Real Housewives of Orange County, Tamra, 59, became emotional when she provided a glimpse into the struggles she had been facing in one of the most important relationships of her life.
“There’s a wall up, and it’s starting to scare me. We got into a fight about six months ago,” she shared in a confessional interview. “We were in Big Bear and the entire trip we were just arguing about stupid things. We were driving home, and he just looked at me and said, ‘I think it’s time to file for divorce.’”
While holding back tears, Tamra added, “It scared me. It scared me hard.”
During Thursday’s episode, the Bravo reality star decided to invite her husband over to the Surf & Sand Laguna Beach oceanfront hotel for a night of romance.
“Our relationship has been so easy up until a year ago,” she said. “I feel like we are now roommates. I’m trying new things. I’m trying to spice this s*** up.”
While intimacy was a topic of discussion, Tamra — who called herself Miss Juicy for the date night — also made it clear that both parties simply need to prioritize the marriage.
Eddie Judge, Tamra Judge Courtesy of Tamra Judge/Instagram
“I know that I’m a really hard, tough person and I don’t give a lot emotionally and maybe I’m the problem,” Tamra said. “I can’t let this marriage go. He’s such a good man and it just feels like we need to get this connection back.”
Eddie, 53, later told his wife, “The bottom line is we need time where we can focus on each other.”
Tamra and Eddie got married at the St. Regis Monarch Beach Resort in Dana Point, California, in June 2013. Bravo cameras rolled as the couple officially became husband and wife in front of guests such as Vicki Gunvalson and Heather Dubrow.
This past summer, the pair — who recently rescued a puppy at the Mission Viejo Animal Services Center — celebrated 13 years of marriage together.
“Lucky 13. 🍀🤍 Cheers to 13 years of love, laughter, and everything in between,” Tamra wrote via Instagram on June 15. “Our wedding day was perfect, and 13 years later, I’d do it all over again.”
The Real Housewives of Orange County airs on Bravo Thursdays at 8 p.m. ET. Stream new episodes the next day on Peacock.
